Something bothering you today? Someone irritate you? Ask the four questions:

  1. Will this matter in a month if I do or say nothing?
  2. Can I put my feelings aside to try to understand why he/she or this thing is bothering me?
  3. What is the best possible outcome for this situation?
  4. If I can’t get the best possible outcome, how can I live happily with what will be?

By Ray Calabrese

I am an optimistic, can do, and never quit guy. The spirit of hope indelibly marks my DNA. My research at The Ohio State University helped people discover the best in themselves and change their personal lives, public organizations, and whole communities. I bring the same spirit and enthusiasm to my blog to help those who grieve who find themselves suddenly alone, navigate their grieving. Join my more than 24,300Twitter (@alwaysgoodstuff). I promise my tweets are always good stuff. Please feel free to email me at ray.brese@gmail.com.

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