Observe two couples in a coffee shop. The first couple compete for airtime where neither party listens to the other. The other couple engage in a conversation and shows interest in each other’s likes and dislikes. Which couple has the better relationship?
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The latter. Nothing like a meaningful conversation. 🙂
Thank you for all your comments, Terveen. They were spot on! Being present to each other sustains and improves a relationship. I’ve learned if both people keep talking, somehow everything works out. My wife and I would go on “cheap dates” e.g., Starbucks or something similar where we would dialogue about issues, vacations, dreams, etc.. It worked for us and we also enjoyed the coffee. Have a great day. Stay strong and healthy. Shine on. Ray
The latter. Nothing like a meaningful conversation. 🙂
Thank you for all your comments, Terveen. They were spot on! Being present to each other sustains and improves a relationship. I’ve learned if both people keep talking, somehow everything works out. My wife and I would go on “cheap dates” e.g., Starbucks or something similar where we would dialogue about issues, vacations, dreams, etc.. It worked for us and we also enjoyed the coffee. Have a great day. Stay strong and healthy. Shine on. Ray
That’s really lovely, Ray. 🙂