It’s not who others think you are. It’s not what others think you should be. It’s not what others think of you. it’s what you think about your self. See the best in yourself. See a human being worthy of giving love and being loved. The following YouTube video will make you think about these questions.
When I first saw this YouTube video, I showed it to my students at The Ohio State University as a model for teamwork. I’ve watched it many times. The more I watch it, the more I see how it represents our need to compliment each other. Your strength compliments my weakness. My strength compliments your weakness. We make it work when we learn to trust each other at a deep level. It takes courage to let go and rely on another.
We Need Each Other
This past weekend, Mother’s Day, I traveled to Illinois to spend time with a daughter and her family. It’s my first Mother’s Day without Babe. No sadness, a time for celebration for what was, what is, and what will be.
Love finds a way to heal.
Love finds a way to renew.
Love finds a way to rekindle the fire of life.
Love always finds a way through even the darkest of nights.
Love is the beginning, the middle and the new beginnings of all things.
Love Finds a way
Always trust love.
Lately I’ve been runnin on faith. What else can a poor boy do?
– Jerry Lynn Williams
When everything you’ve learned doesn’t work. When everything you’ve tried ends up failing. When life knocks you flat on your back, you have no choice but to look up when you open your eyes.
Faith is trusting a loving God, no matter the odds, no matter the challenge, you and I will find the strength to rise to one knee, take a deep breath, stand up, and move on.
Faith is facing the challenge head on that knocked us down.
Faith is you and me saying, “I won’t quit. I won’t give in. I won’t give up.”
Faith discovers strength from deep within.
Faith stirs our will to shout, “You Will Get Through.”
Faith is available to all of us. It’s a wonderful, awesome gift.
Maybe I don’t understand faith as well as others. I know I find courage, strength, and confidence when give my YES to fight on, do my best and trust God to do the rest.
In times when life knocks me down, I will give a resounding YES to fight on. I hope you do as well. We can do it.
Lessons From Life
There are things that we don’t want to happen but have to accept, things we don’t want to know but have to learn, and people we can’t live without but have to let go. ~Author Unknown
Why does it take so long to acquire wisdom? I consider myself intelligent. I earned a doctorate. I had a stellar career in higher education. Yet, I am a slow learner. My uneducated dad would tell my brother and me we had a great education, but the university forgot to teach us common sense. I always got a laugh out of that one.
In my dad’s lived experience of growing up with ten siblings, raised by a single mom after his father died, living through the great depression, and fighting in WW II allowed him to gain human wisdom. He called it common sense. He learned early on the things life is now teaching me. I learned:
- Trusting God is better than asking why.
- Living in the present moment is better than living in the past.
- Having a hope-filled heart is better than having a bitter heart.
- Knowing love wins, love always wins is better than not knowing or ever having experienced love.